Welcoming Spring: Imbolc 2026 and the Celebration of Brigid

As the grip of winter begins to loosen, many of us look forward to the first glimmers of spring—a sign that new life is just around the corner. This year, on February 1, 2026, we will celebrate Imbolc, an ancient Celtic festival that honors the goddess Brigid and marks the stirring of the earth after the cold months. Whether you're already familiar with Celtic traditions or discovering them for the first time, Imbolc offers a beautiful moment of reflection and hope.

Imbolc has long been associated with light and renewal. Traditionally, people would light candles and bonfires to welcome back the sun’s return and to inspire growth in the coming season. It’s a time to prepare—both physically and spiritually—for the planting ahead. The festival pays tribute to Brigid, a goddess linked to fertility, healing, and creativity, which makes Imbolc not just a seasonal milestone but a call to embrace new beginnings.

Traditions That Light the Way

One of the most iconic practices during Imbolc is the lighting of candles. Think of it as illuminating a path from the depths of winter toward the fresh promise of spring. These flames symbolize warmth and the growing power of the sun, which ancient communities deeply depended on. Hosting bonfires was also customary, bringing neighbors and families together to share stories and strengthen bonds while bathing in communal light.

Beyond the flickering flames, reflection plays a crucial role during Imbolc. It’s an opportunity to consider what you want to sow into your life—not just gardens, but ideas, projects, and intentions. The quiet focus on renewal can be surprisingly grounding, especially when the rest of the year gets hectic.

How to Celebrate Imbolc in 2026

You don’t need to be a historian or a pagan practitioner to enjoy Imbolc’s magic. Here are some simple ways to bring this ancient celebration into your own life:

• Light a candle: Create a small altar or focal point in your home with candles, perhaps adorned with spring herbs like rosemary or thyme.

• Spend time outdoors: Even a short walk can connect you with the subtle shifts in nature—the crocuses pushing through the soil or the quiet hum of winter birds.

• Reflect or journal: Write down what new beginnings you hope to nurture this year and what old patterns you want to release.

• Gather friends or family: Share food, stories, or simply sit together by a fire or a candlelit space to honor community.

In recognizing Imbolc, we touch upon something timeless: the rhythm of light returning to the world, the earth awakening, and the endless possibilities that come with each season’s turn.

So as 2026’s Imbolc draws near, why not pause and kindle a little light of your own? It’s a chance to slow down, honor the past, and set your sights on growth. After all, every flame started with a single spark.

Looking ahead, next week we’ll dive into the rich symbolism of Brigid herself—her enduring influence in art, literature, and modern spirituality. Until then, may your days be brightening and your spirit steady in this season of hopeful beginnings.

The Lasting Impact of Scarcity and Shame: Unpacking Narcissistic Shadows

 

Welcome back to the blog! This week, I want to talk about something many of us have either experienced firsthand or witnessed from a distance—how scarring and shaming, especially in childhood, can stunt someone’s growth into their authentic self. It’s a deeply human topic, often wrapped in the complex tactics of narcissism, but understanding it sheds light on healing and reclaiming our true identities.

We all carry stories from our past, right? Sometimes those stories include moments when we were belittled or made to feel less-than, intentionally or not. Scarcity and shame are sneaky—they don’t just sting in the moment; they can weave themselves into our self-perception, leaving lasting marks that whisper, “You’re not enough” or “You need to be different to be accepted.” When this comes from someone with narcissistic traits or a caregiving figure in childhood, it becomes part of a bigger pattern aimed at control and emotional dominance.

Scar and Shame: More Than Just Words

At its core, scarring someone emotionally distorts their sense of self. It’s not just about an insult or a cold remark; it’s about carving out pieces of a person’s confidence and authenticity. Shame is an especially cruel companion here because it doesn’t just point out flaws—it makes the person feel inherently broken or unworthy.

Narcissists, whether in family, friendships, or romantic relationships, often use these tactics strategically. Why? To keep their control intact. By tearing down another’s ability to flourish authentically, they ensure their needs and image remain the center of attention.

For children, who are in the critical phase of identity formation, this can be devastating. When a parent or important adult shames a child for their ideas, emotions, or interests, it discourages exploration and nurtures self-doubt instead. The result? A grown-up who might struggle with vulnerability, identity, or self-acceptance long after the original wounds.

What Can We Do? Practical Insights and Hope

The good news is recognizing these patterns is the first step to breaking free. If you find yourself grappling with feelings of shame or the scars left by narcissistic behaviors, it’s important to remember:

• Self-compassion is vital. Those internal critical voices? They’re echoes from the past, not truth.

• Seeking support, whether through therapy, community groups, or trusted friends, can build a restorative space to rediscover your authentic self.

• Setting boundaries with narcissistic people can protect you from further emotional harm and create room for healing.

It’s about reclaiming your narrative, one small step at a time—and recognizing that your worth was never dependent on someone else’s approval or manipulations.

Before I sign off, I want to encourage you to keep observing how early experiences are shaping your current relationship with yourself and others. Empowered awareness is a superpower, even if it doesn’t always feel that way at first.

Thanks for spending this moment with me. Next week, we’ll explore how mindfulness practices can gently support emotional healing and resilience—because sometimes the quietest tools make the biggest difference.

Until then, be kind to yourself. You’re growing, you’re healing, and you’re absolutely enough.

Discovering the Magic of the Silkie: A Celtic Tale That Sings to the Soul

 There’s something truly special about sitting down to listen to a story that feels like it’s woven into the very fabric of your heritage. Recently, my son and I found ourselves captivated once again by a beautiful retelling of a Celtic myth—one that strikes a chord, especially for anyone with Irish roots. This week, I want to share with you a musical journey that brought that myth to life in the most enchanting way, carried by the extraordinary voice of Irish singer Karan Casey.

Casey, formerly a member of the renowned Irish group Solas, lends her haunting vocals and storytelling to a classic legend—the tale that inspired the beloved family film “The Secret of Roan Inish.” At the heart of the story is the Silkie: a mystical seal maiden who sheds her seal skin to live on land as a human. But fate has other plans for her. Trapped in human form, she falls in love, marries, and becomes a mother. The boy born to her is no ordinary child; his “ocean in his heartbeat” marks him as gifted, destined to unlock his own dual nature—and to help his mother find her long-lost home beneath the waves.

What makes this recording so memorable isn’t just the myth itself, but how the music dances around it. A lively ensemble of other singers and musicians join Casey, painting the story with the magic of Celtic instruments—the lilting fiddle, the rhythmic bodhrán, and the sweetly haunting whistle. It’s impossible not to be swept away by the sounds that evoke Ireland’s rugged coasts and whispered legends. The song that bookends the tale, “We’re Going Sailing,” stays with you long after the music stops—like a gentle call to adventure and homecoming all at once.

It’s no surprise this performance earned a 2000 Parents’ Choice® Silver Honor, making it not just a great listen but a wonderful family experience. Sharing it with my son has sparked conversations about our heritage, about myths that hold timeless truths, and about how music can connect us to stories older than we are.

If you’re looking for a way to introduce your family to the wonders of Celtic folklore—even if Irish descent isn’t part of your family tree—this beautifully crafted retelling offers something universal: the enchanting reminder that our roots, like the sea, run deep, and sometimes, the most extraordinary magic lies in embracing who we truly are.

Next week, I’ll be diving into more folklore and music that bridges past and present—so stay tuned for more stories that warm the heart and feed the imagination. Until then, may your days be filled with songs that tell your own story and the kind of magic that feels just close enough to reach out and touch.

Quick and Easy Venison Brining Recipe

 

Required Ingredients

• 1 Gallon of Water
• 1/2 Cup of Soy Sauce – Make sure not to buy the reduced sodium kind
• 3/4 Cup of Kosher Salt
• 1/2 Cup of Brown Sugar
• 1/4 Cup of Worcestershire Sauce
• 1/2 Cup of Molasses
• 2 Tbs. Pepper
• 1 Tbs. Rosemary

Breaking Free: Becoming More Present and Healing Old Patterns in Our Relationships

 

Hey there, friends! This week, I want to explore something deeply personal yet incredibly universal—how we become more conscious of the emotional legacies our parents pass down and how we can actively work to break free from old, toxic relationship patterns. 

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck on “autopilot,” repeating familiar but damaging behaviors, or craving greater awareness and presence in your relationships, then this post is for you.

Let’s dig into this together, with honesty and kindness. Healing isn’t linear or neat, but it’s worth the effort—and awareness is the very first step to change.

Understanding the Emotional Baggage We Carry

We all carry bundles of emotional baggage from our upbringing—unspoken rules, fears, or ingrained habits that silently influence how we relate to others. Often these come from our parents or primary caregivers, shaping what we think love looks like, how to handle conflict, or what we believe we deserve.

Recognizing this “emotional inheritance” isn’t about blame, but about clarity. What echoes of your parents’ relationship patterns or personal struggles can you see reflected in your own? Are there moments you catch yourself reacting automatically—maybe shutting down, overcompensating, or avoiding difficult conversations?

For me, becoming more aware has been like shining a flashlight into those hidden corners of my mind. It’s uncomfortable but illuminating. The goal isn’t perfection; it’s presence. When we’re present, we choose consciously instead of following unconscious scripts.

Staying Present Through the Right Moves“The right move” isn’t always obvious and rarely feels effortless. But it can be cultivated. Presence means pausing before reacting, checking in with your feelings, and being genuinely curious about your partner’s experience. It’s about nurturing empathy and honesty, even when old habits pressure you to hide or defend yourself.

Some gentle practices that helped me include:

Mindful breathing: Taking a moment during tense interactions to breathe deeply and center myself.

Journaling: Writing out recurring patterns or emotions as they come up, which helps untangle them.

Setting boundaries: Learning to say “no” or “not right now” without guilt.

Seeking support: Therapy, trusted friends, or supportive communities that encourage growth.

Remember, every small step away from toxicity and toward openness is a win. It’s not about erasing the past but weaving your awareness into your daily actions.

Turning Awareness Into Transformation

Being present isn’t a destination but an ongoing journey. The act of continuously choosing awareness over automatic reaction helps dissolve the hold of those old harmful patterns. This can look like catching yourself on a loop, gently redirecting your energy, and nurturing new, healthier ways of relating.

Each time you move through that discomfort and choose presence, you’re creating a new legacy—one shaped by conscious compassion rather than inherited wounds.It’s not easy, but it’s deeply rewarding. Your relationships can become places of healing instead of repetition. And as you heal, you make space for yourself and those around you to thrive.

Before You Go...Thank you for joining me in this reflection. If these ideas resonate, I encourage you to take a moment today to notice one pattern you’d like to shift and one small, present choice you can make instead. These tiny acts add up to big change.Next week, I’ll share some practical tools and exercises to help build emotional resilience and deepen connection in your relationships—it’s going to be a hands-on, heart-opening session, so stay tuned!Until then, be gentle with yourself and remember: awareness is the gateway to freedom. We’re all in this together.

Each time you move through that discomfort and choose presence, you’re creating a new legacy—one shaped by conscious compassion rather than inherited wounds.

It’s not easy, but it’s deeply rewarding. Your relationships can become places of healing instead of repetition. And as you heal, you make space for yourself and those around you to thrive.

Before You Go...

Thank you for joining me in this reflection. If these ideas resonate, I encourage you to take a moment today to notice one pattern you’d like to shift and one small, present choice you can make instead. These tiny acts add up to big change.

Next week, I’ll share some practical tools and exercises to help build emotional resilience and deepen connection in your relationships—it’s going to be a hands-on, heart-opening session, so stay tuned!

Until then, be gentle with yourself and remember: awareness is the gateway to freedom. We’re all in this together.

Waking Up to Your Emotions: A Journey Toward Self-Awareness and Healthy Boundaries

 

Welcome back to the blog! This week, I want to share something that’s been quietly transformative for me: learning to truly recognize and articulate my emotions—and, crucially, how my body clues me in on what I’m feeling. If you’ve ever felt like your emotions are swirling beneath the surface, ready to overwhelm but hard to pin down, you’re in good company.

It all began with a simple but powerful practice: setting my alarm not just to wake up physically but to wake up emotionally. This meant taking a moment each day to check in with myself, to put into words what was brewing inside, and to notice how different parts of my body responded to those feelings. Was there a tightness in my chest? A flutter in my stomach? These bodily sensations became signposts pointing to deeper emotional realities.

Alongside this growing sensitivity, I started learning about healthy boundaries. The idea of “breeze”—that gentle, refreshing space you create around yourself—became my mantra. I realized I didn’t have to let people overstep, interrupt, or dismiss what I was saying or feeling. It wasn’t always easy, but setting clear limits on how others interact with me helped preserve my well-being and sense of safety. After all, nothing takes the calm and clarity out of you faster than having your voice talked over or your experience invalidated.

This newfound awareness has been life-changing. By tuning into my emotions and bodily cues, I’m not only honoring myself but also creating an environment where I can thrive—calm, centered, and clear-headed. It’s a reminder that emotional health isn’t just a lofty concept but a daily practice, one that involves self-advocacy and kindness toward our inner world.

Thank you for joining me on this reflective journey. If you’ve ever struggled with understanding your feelings or setting boundaries, I hope this article sparks some inspiration to take small, meaningful steps. Next week, we’ll dive into practical tips for maintaining these boundaries with loved ones without guilt or discomfort—because looking after yourself is always worth it.

Until then, be kind to yourself and keep listening inward.

Practical Strategies for Setting Healthy Emotional Boundaries

Understanding Emotional Boundaries

Emotional boundaries protect your feelings and ensure you feel safe in relationships. They help you manage the energy and emotions you give and receive. Establishing these boundaries is crucial, especially in challenging family dynamics.

Strategies for Setting Boundaries

Strategy Description

Start Small Focus on one boundary at a time to avoid feeling overwhelmed.

Be Clear Communicate your needs and limits directly and simply to family members.

Use "I" Statements Express your feelings without blaming others. For example, say "I feel overwhelmed when..."

Practice Assertiveness Stand firm in your boundaries while remaining respectful.

Recognize Your Feelings Pay attention to your emotions. If something feels off, it may indicate a boundary has been crossed.

Set Consequences Clearly outline what will happen if your boundaries are not respected.

Nurturing Self-Love

Prioritize Self-Care: Make time for activities that recharge you, such as hobbies or relaxation techniques.

Acknowledge Your Needs: Recognize that your feelings and needs are valid. Prioritizing them is essential for your well-being.

Seek Support: Surround yourself with supportive friends or professionals who respect your boundaries and encourage your self-love journey.

Reflect on Your Values: Understand what is important to you. This clarity will help you set boundaries that align with your values.

By implementing these strategies, you can create a healthier emotional environment within your family, fostering both self-love and respect for your boundaries.

 

Why “The Body Keeps the Score” Deserves a Spot on Your Bookshelf

Welcome back, dear readers! This week, I want to share something deeply meaningful—a book that’s not just a read but an invitation to healing and deeper connection. Whether you’re a homeschooling parent seeking emotional tools for your family, someone navigating old emotional patterns, or a married couple hoping to reconnect on a more profound level, this one’s for you.

Let me tell you about “The Body Keeps the Score” by Bessel van der Kolk. You might have heard of it already, but if not, trust me—it’s worth your time. This book masterfully unpacks how trauma isn’t just a story of the past locked away in our minds; it’s held in our bodies, shaping how we feel, behave, and relate to others.

More Than Just a Book on Trauma

What makes this book stand out is its blend of science, compassion, and practical guidance. Van der Kolk, a psychiatrist and trauma researcher, reveals how traditional talk therapy often misses the mark because trauma imprints itself in the nervous system, not just the brain’s narrative center. This means that healing isn’t only about understanding what happened but also about learning to listen to and soothe our bodies too.

For those of us juggling homeschooling dramas, intense meetings, or the everyday noise that pulls us away from pausing and reflecting, this book offers gentle reminders on the importance of presence and self-awareness. It’s a guide to breaking free from stuck emotional patterns that echo from childhood to adulthood.

Healing Intimacy: A Gift for Couples

Another powerful layer is how the book gently addresses intimacy—especially for married couples who might feel disconnected or emotionally distant. Trauma can erect invisible walls that make vulnerability and closeness feel risky. “The Body Keeps the Score” shows pathways toward rediscovering safety and trust, which are the bedrocks of deep intimacy. It doesn’t sugarcoat the work required but offers hope that meaningful connection is possible.

I’ve seen friends and colleagues benefit immensely by approaching this book slowly, allowing the ideas to sink in rather than rushing through it. It’s the kind of book that can spark honest conversations between partners or provide fresh insights for anyone feeling stuck in old emotional cycles.

A Few Takeaways—and Recommendations to Dive Deeper

• Patience is key: This isn’t a quick-fix manual. It rewards slow reading and reflection.

• Mind-body connection matters: Try pairing your reading with gentle movement practices like yoga or mindful breathing—it can be a powerful complement.

• Community helps: Whether through a book club, therapy group, or informal chats, sharing insights from this book can deepen understanding and healing.

For those homeschooling, incorporating emotional well-being into your curriculum doesn’t have to feel intimidating—this book sparks ideas on how to nurture resilience in both children and adults alike.

In short, “The Body Keeps the Score” is more than a book; it’s a compassionate companion on the journey toward emotional freedom and closer connection.

Thanks for stopping by to explore this with me. I’d love to hear if you’ve read it or what books have shaped your perspective on healing and intimate relationships. Stay tuned for next week’s post, where we’ll dive into practical mindfulness exercises to complement emotional growth.

Until then, take good care of yourself—and each other.