When children are old enough, we can explain the difference between being selfish , self-righteous, and being greedy. Teaching them to follow the motto, "If it feels wrong inside, it's good for no one," can help children keep their motives sincere and pure. We can help them understand this distinction better by talking about the "good selfish" acts we engage in, what motivates us to do them, how these acts do not harm others, and how the benefits to ourselves spread to those around us. We can also help kids analyze the motives behind their own acts towards others. Do these motives allow children to keep their morals intact? Are their actions truly good for them in the long run? Do their actions help, rather than harm others? Could any ulterior motives be involved that make their acts less angelic than they appear?
Morally speaking, it's always in the best interests of the self-directed individual to do the right thing?
How do you teach this...
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